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Life is tooooo damn short for poor communication. I say speak it, say it, get it out. Let's keep moving! Motion changes everything, we don't have time to sit still, to wonder to ponder, to worry, to debate, I say if yer gonna do all of that, you better have moving forward as the actionable outcome.
--- side note...
Do you ever ask questions that you already know answers to just to ask those questions in the hopes to get conversation actually happening when said party is clearly not speaking? I have to do that with my brother Matt. Typically theres an agenda in a conversation, an agenda i dont really know much about. I talk a bit, but then clearly and early in the conversation its clear the answer is already known, the tresure is found. Now what? Personally i'd like to keep talkin get over the "agenda" and more into the "how ya doin" talk, ya know the meat of the conversation... but then you realize that unless you ask a question or make a statement you know the answer to or that will spark him to speak, you know this conversation will die and fast. So I ask those questions, and i go where I know I shouldnt go but I do that to see if I can get more.. and i typically don't. The conversation seems to die even faster. Ahhh well. I love my brother Matt. I wish him the best always.