hey i hear yer wounded!
I think its funny people tend to come outa the woodwork and talk to ya when they know something is up on yer end, and they like fish for info. Its the classic "hey i heard you were wounded, hows it going!!?" thing. Least it always feels that way. Like when all is well yer off the map but then when they know you crashed yer car or something, they call and say "dude dan how ya doing man.. long time no see.. umm ya... dude how are you...." and then you can battle them off ignoring the obvious digs and say whatever, eventually though they strike..."dude i heard about car... ya...." or they dont strike and they just hang on the cliff of plasuable reason... like the odd silence ya get when no one laughs to a joke, it suspends time and space, everything in a standstill..... and then someone breaks.
I need to learn the art of reverse discussion tactics. They say "hey" I respond with "wood chipper" or something, or maybe go into telemarker mode and sell them something i dont care about. "ya dude good talkin to ya.. hey i got this deal on cat litter, bought a ton off ebay want some? its gonna pay off my mortage.. its gonna be sweet..." and then with that ball in their court then see how they deal with it.
Problem is ive never been good at the "ya things fine" and thats it, I ramble, see i ramble here. Its in my nature to express and explore and expose.. so folks who know that factor that in and bait me into conversations.
BTW this has nothing to do with, normal, personal or work.. just an observation in general. So dont fish!
Comments
dude... you crashed yer car? you okay, its been a while since i talked to ya.
Posted by: Gator Dave | November 8, 2003 07:39 PM
dude...you crashed your car? poor girl, how's she doin?
Posted by: melis | November 9, 2003 12:42 AM
Where's the Damage Pix?
Posted by: sponng | November 10, 2003 12:27 PM